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最愛 saiai Beloved

This is a philological study of the Japanese word 最愛 (saiai), the one a person loves most. It spans more than a thousand years and examines how two Chinese characters became a Japanese noun, whom it has been said of, and the English it has carried since 1872.

最愛 · saiai · Beloved; the one loved most, and the bond between husband and wife

Abstract

最愛, saiai, is a Sino-Japanese noun for the one a person loves most and, in a second sense, for the bond between husband and wife. In Chinese the two characters stand together only as a verb and its object, what I love most is; Japanese made them a word for a person, and the first use the national dictionary cites, from the Utsuho monogatari of the late tenth century, is a most-beloved wife. In the digitized books of the 1870s to the 1940s the word is used of a wife more often than of anyone else, and it belongs to the eulogy, the prayer, the law of inheritance and the love letter. Its English has stood since Hepburn's dictionary of 1872: most beloved, dearest.

Overview

The sense. Two senses, and the Japanese dictionaries give both. The 精選版 日本国語大辞典's first is 非常にかわいく思うこと。たいそう愛すること。また、そのもの, holding someone very dear; loving greatly; also, the one so loved, so the word names the person as well as the loving; its second is 男女または夫婦が互いに親しみ睦むこと。また、その間柄, a man and a woman, or husband and wife, being close and loving with each other; that bond [1]. デジタル大辞泉 gives the same two, 最も深く愛していること with the examples 最愛のわが子, my most beloved child, and 最愛の妻を亡くす, to lose one's most beloved wife, and 男女または夫婦の仲のよいこと [1]. Its register is the solemn one: the uses below are the eulogy, the prayer, the law and the love letter. It is a noun that also serves as a modifier with の.

The words. 最 is the superlative, in Kroll's words indicator of superlative: most X of all, the 最 of 最高, all-highest, and in Buddhist use of 最勝, a name for a buddha [2]. 愛 is be partial to, and so be fond of, care for; be attached to, cherish, love [2]. The 字通 glosses the compound 最も愛する, to love most [1]. The reading is saiai in every dictionary; the Utsuho citation spells it さいあひ, the same word in historical kana, and the Heike citation writes 㝡, a form of 最 [1].

The text in English. Hepburn's second edition of 1872 gives Most beloved, well beloved [3]; Brinkley in 1896, Dearest or most beloved [4]; Saitō in 1928, Dearest; beloved; darling [5]; Kenkyūsha in 1942, Most dear; dearest; beloved; nearest one's heart [6]; JMdict today, beloved; dearest [7]. A century and a half of dictionaries has kept two English words, beloved and dearest, and one idea, most.

The historical record

The ninth century. Bai Juyi, 錢塘湖春行, a poem on West Lake in spring. The pair in Chinese, as a verb and its object [8]:

最愛湖東行不足，綠楊陰裏白沙堤。 What I love most is the east of the lake, which I cannot walk enough: the white sand causeway in the shade of the green willows.

The Sinitic verse of Korea printed in Japan uses the pair the same way: 平生最愛僧定眼 in the collected works of 李穡 [9], 最愛湖山景気加 in a poem the 東國輿地勝覽 records [10]. The Taiwan Ministry of Education's dictionary has no entry for the pair [11].

Late tenth century. The Utsuho monogatari. The national dictionary's first citation for the first sense, from the chapter 蔵開 [1]:

人の国にも、さいあひの妻もたるにぞそしりとりたるめる

A most-beloved wife, already a thing a man might have and be talked about for. The first person the word is cited of is a wife.

Early thirteenth century. The Heike monogatari, in the Hiramatsu-ke text. Of Kiyomori and the dancer Giō: 入道相国〈略〉姉の義王を㝡愛して, the lay chancellor … loved the elder sister, Giō, above all [1]. Here the word is a verb, to love most.

1220. Jien, 愚管抄, a history of Japan. The national dictionary's first citation for the second sense [1]:

世間のゆゆしき沙汰にて、最愛の中になりて、師家と云ふ子うみて To the world's great scandal, they became most loving with each other, and she bore a son called 師家.

The word names a couple's bond, and the bond produces a son.

1283. Mujū, 沙石集, Sand and Pebbles, in an Edo printing. The scene the word is best known in: Saigyō, on the day he resolved to leave the world, and the most-beloved daughter who clung to him [12]:

西行法師初発心ノ時。最愛ノイトナキ。ムスメノ。トリツキタリシヲ。縁ヨリケトシテ … 心ツヨク。ステタリケル When the priest Saigyō first set his heart on the Way, the most-beloved daughter clung to him; he kicked her from the veranda … and, hardening his heart, left her.

The same book has a woman inconsolable for her only child, 妹ノ女房最愛ノ一子ニヲクレテ。人ノ親ノ習トイヒナガラ。アナガチニ歎キケレバ, bereaved of her most-beloved only child, she grieved beyond what is usual even for a parent [12]. The beloved is what one gives up for the Way, and what one cannot give up.

Late Muromachi. The tale of Sayohime, 御伽草子. そののちさよひめは、やまとのこくしとさいあひして、御子あまたいでき給ふ, after that Sayohime lived in love with the governor of Yamato, and many children were born to them [1]. The second sense, as a verb.

1872. James Curtis Hepburn, A Japanese-English and English-Japanese Dictionary, second edition. The first bilingual entry cited here, with the gloss mottomo aisuru, to love most, and an example [3]:

(mottomo aisuru.) Most beloved, well beloved. — no ko, dearly beloved child.

The fourth edition of 1888 prints the same entry [13].

1896. F. Brinkley, An Unabridged Japanese-English Dictionary. Dearest or most beloved. Sai-ai no ko, dearest child [4].

1897. 田代律雄, 『相続法』, lectures on the law of inheritance. The law's presumption about who inherits is written in the word [14]:

被相續人は其生前の地位と財產とは之を最愛の者に讓るとの意思ありて其最愛の者は最近卑屬親なりとの推測に基くものなり It rests on the presumption that the deceased intended to leave his standing and his property to the one he loved most, and that the one he loved most is his nearest descendant.

Meiji, undated. 千秋季隆, 『神楽歌評釋』, a commentary on the kagura songs. The commentator glosses the old word 我妹, my beloved, with this one: われも亦たわが最愛の妹も乘りたれば, since I and my most beloved have both boarded [15].

1908 to 1921. The eulogy. 『女子の慰安』 (1908) tells of a woman who had lost her most-beloved child and went nowhere but the grave, ああ最愛の子を失つて、日夜悲哀にのみ沈み。其の墓所にばかり參つてゐた夫人があつた [16]. 『恩師乃木院長』 (1917) records that in the autumn of 1876, in the rebellion of 前原一誠, Nogi's most-beloved younger brother was the first to join and was killed, 最愛の弟眞人氏は、最先に此の亂に加はつて、討死を遂げられた [17]. 『恋のゲエテ』 (1920) says that on the day of Schiller's death the Weimar theater closed and everyone grieved as if they had lost a most-beloved friend, 人々皆最愛の友を喪つた如くに悲しんだ [18]. 『乃木会講演集』 (1921) speaks to those who have lost a most-beloved husband, 自身の最愛の夫を喪つた人 [19].

1910 and 1912. The church. Two of Alphonsus Liguori's books in 浦川和三郎's Japanese: 『聖母マリアの七の悲傷』 (1910) has the Virgin's 最愛の御子, most-beloved Son [20], and 『聖体訪問』 (1912) prays 然らば最愛の耶穌よ、私の心を全く御手に収めて、此處に玉座を設け、永遠に私の王となり給へ, then, most-beloved Jesus, take my heart wholly into your hands, set your throne here, and be my king for ever [21].

1924. 帆足理一郎 and others, 『婦人と新社会の建設』, lectures for the city of Tokyo. The word admits one person only [22]:

あなたは私の最愛の男であるとか … 最愛の女であるとかいひますと、それは僞をいつて居るのである。愛する對手が二人あつたのでは二人を最愛であるといふことはいへない If you tell someone "you are my most-beloved man" or "my most-beloved woman," you are lying; where there are two people you love, you cannot call the two of them most beloved.

And on a neighboring page: 最愛の妻、最愛の夫が意中に於てたつた一人であるところに無限の價値があります, the infinite worth of a most-beloved wife, a most-beloved husband, lies in there being only one of them in your heart [22].

1928. 斎藤秀三郎, 『斎藤和英大辞典』. Dearest; beloved; darling, with 最愛の子 a darling child, 最愛の友 a beloved friend, and 最愛の妻 the wife of one's bosom [5].

1942. Kenkyūsha's New Japanese-English Dictionary, American edition. Most dear; dearest; beloved; nearest one's heart, with 最愛の子 [6].

1942. 原田光子 (trans.), 『天才ショパンの心 : ショパンの手紙』, Chopin's letters. 最愛なる人よ、君は何とよい人なのだらう, dearest, how good you are [23]. The word of the love letter.

The books of the 1870s to the 1940s. In the public-domain books the National Diet Library has digitized, the word most often goes before 妻, wife, more than twice as often as before 子, child, and after those before 夫, husband, 娘, daughter, and 人, person [24]. The older Chinese and Korean books in the same collection use it as a verb [24].

1983. Kenkyūsha's New Collegiate Japanese-English Dictionary, third edition. 最愛の, one's dearest, with beloved given in the book's square brackets as the alternative [25].

1984 to 2021. The bare word as a title. 柏原芳恵's single 「最愛」 (1984) [26]; KOH+'s 「最愛」 (2008), words and music by 福山雅治, the theme of the film 容疑者Xの献身 [1]; and the TBS drama 『最愛』 (2021) [27].

Today. The national anthems of Mozambique and the Philippines are known in Japanese as 最愛の祖国 [28] and 最愛の地 [29]; the encyclopedia's summary of the Genji chapter 紅葉賀 has the emperor 最愛の藤壺 [30]. The word is also a girl's given name, read Moa [7], and a member of the band BABYMETAL, 菊地最愛, carries it [31]. 研究社's 新和英中辞典 gives one's dearest, and JMdict beloved; dearest [7]. The house title, Beloved, is the second word of Hepburn's 1872 line [3]. A rendering of this word has to keep the superlative it is built on: the word admits one person only.

What is not a source. Bai Juyi's line and the Korean verse printed in Japan use the two characters as a verb and its object [8][9][10]. They are the pair's history in Chinese, not a source for the Japanese noun, which names a person.

A reading

最愛 is the oldest word Japanese has for the person one loves most, and the first person the dictionary cites it of is a wife. It carries, as a second sense, the bond of a married couple, so a wife stands inside the word twice. It names the person as well as the love, which is why it can stand alone without の人, and why a songwriter, a television network and parents naming a daughter have used it alone. Its register is the solemn one: it is spoken most often over the greatest losses because it names the greatest love, and it admits only one, as a lecturer said outright in 1924. What the word does not carry is time. 最愛 says most beloved and nothing about forever. Its neighbors say less or other things: 愛妻 is a man's wife in the domestic register, the wife of the 愛妻弁当; 恋人 is a sweetheart; 愛する人 is a clause, not a word; 永遠の愛 has no person in it; 最愛の人 is this word with a noun it does not need. In Chinese the two characters are a verb and the start of a sentence, what I love most is; in Japanese they are a person. That is a fact about two languages.

References

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  2. Paul W. Kroll, A Student's Dictionary of Classical and Medieval Chinese, revised edition, Brill, Leiden and Boston, 2017, pp. 1 (愛) and 634 (最).
  3. J. C. Hepburn, A Japanese-English and English-Japanese Dictionary, 2nd ed., American Presbyterian Mission Press, Shanghai, 1872, SAI-AI. National Diet Library pid 993689, scan 229. https://dl.ndl.go.jp/pid/993689/1/229
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Authors

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